My Baby Girl Chyenn

To my baby girl Chyenn,

Do you know that 02-Nov is a very special day for your daddy, which I have experience GOD miracle, i.e the birth of you. After 39 weeks of ups and downs, guessing, and nervelessly waiting for you, we finally can see each other, eye to eye.

Do you still remember what had happen then?

Let me tell you ah,
when Dr Loo pull you out from your mommy womb (poor mommy), the first things you do is cry, "cleaver girl.." I said, do you know that you very first cry is very loud, yes, it's so loud that even the nurse who cleaning you say to daddy that "she will be a very healthy and demanding girl." Haha, it make daddy very proud of you oh..

Then daddy follows you to nursery room, where the nurse bath you, weighted you, and wrap you up nicely, and daddy take a lot of photos of you..do you still remember it..

Do you still remember when daddy Sing lullaby to try to calm you down, you did try to open your eye very hard to see who's the person who sing, why it sound so familiar? and when you fail to open your eye,you post your first smile to me.. then the whole world is just freeze..from that split second, the whole world just left me and you.. our heart is then connected, I feels you in me, and I know you feel the same. From that moment, I as your daddy, will do everything to protect you, to ensure that you growth up as healthy and happy person.

When you about fall down, my hand will always there to catch you in time
When you unsure, I will always guide you.
When you tired, I will carry you to continue your journey
When you sad, my shoulder and ear is always standby and listen

Why I do all this? because GOD is nice to me, and give me the second best gift I ever have, that's you..
You mommy is my best gift from HIM.

Love You!

Your Daddy ...

Java Interview Question

Here the questions

Given two Integer Array fill with random Integer number, write an effective Java method that will accept the two integer Array above, find out number that exists in both array, and print out the common number sorted, start with smallest number..

e.g

Array 1 - [5, 2, 1, 107, 20,93, 88, 100]
Array 2 - [100, 65, 12, 34, 5, 2, 99, 100, 107]

The method should print out 2, 5, 100, 107
Am surprise that many people don't get it right....

Possible the most "irrelvent" comments on a facebook picture?

Few days ago, I manage to reunited with old friends from Chong Hua High School, my good friend Ah Chan snap a picture of us, and posted on the facebook. I didn't know that a simple comments of helping him finding girl friends will turns to "comments" war between us. Now we looks back, it's kind of funny..thus, I better save the conversations ..

Teh Fui Ping

真不够意思,only 5 of U!!

Tue at 10:59am

Veron Tang

这是几时的gathering?怎么没通知我们？真不够朋友哦。。。

Tue at 3:26pm

Khoo Chen Shiang

ahem, this gathering only reserve for templer 5 tigers, which we covers topics that are very very restricted ... haha next time lah

Tue at 3:29pm · Delete

Chew Yew Chong

Excuse me...this is Temple 5 gathering 嘛,is only men talk。。。下次通知你们咯！

Tue at 7:32pm

Soo Pei Ling

gals, we also call for gathering without them lah.....haha, nice to see yap how keong....

Tue at 10:18pm

Yong Li Lian

Yes, call for gathering without them!!! They are 'Templer 5 tigers'.. We are 'Chung Hua 5 Flowers'.. HAHAHA..

Wed at 10:44am

Chew Yew Chong

Aiya, where got 5 Flowers one?? Make it 7 Flowers ma(七朵花)

Wed at 11:26am

Chew Yew Chong

3 King, 5 Tigers ,7 Flowers....

Wed at 11:43am

Yong Li Lian

Who are the '3 King'??? 3 King???

Wed at 12:10pm

Chew Yew Chong

豬，狗，羊 。。。

Wed at 12:19pm

Veron Tang

no matter how many flowers, the main point is "gathering without you guys", wahahaha... :>

Wed at 1:54pm

Chew Yew Chong

NVM loh... Wat ever loh...

Wed at 2:25pm

Fernice Yap

haiyah.. no more 'Temple 5 Tiger' oridy, now should be 'Temple 5 Uncles'.. ha ha ha..

Wed at 5:38pm

Khoo Chen Shiang

We templer 4 is now on mission to help Chan to find him the other half.. thus Fernice, if you know anyone, do recommends lah
Hahaha

Wed at 5:55pm · Delete

Chew Yew Chong

@#X$%whr got action one..@#X$% wat the hell! always said wan to recommends!said only la! @#X$% James... whr got??

Yesterday at 9:55am

Khoo Chen Shiang

OKOK, my action, Ah Chan should join this event loh ....http://www.voices.com.my/single-mingle-2009, agree everyone!!!?

Yesterday at 10:11am · Delete

Chew Yew Chong

@#$X% !!event ?? I dont know how to join meh??I say recommends one ma!!Do u know wat is called "recommends" ark??

Yesterday at 10:20am

Khoo Chen Shiang

@#$X%, don't believe why such person so lazy, needs to spoon feed ah, sometime, you needs to work a little to find your other half, and when a chance is presented to u (like now), stand up and do somethings about it..

What, u wants me to attend the event for u, and filter girls for u ah..?

Yesterday at 10:26am · Delete

Fernice Yap

ha ha ha.. khoo u r rite, chan should stand up by his own feet. ppl can intro gal to u but u have no action also die la.

Yesterday at 10:43am

Fernice Yap

chan.. come join me more, i intro gal to u! come come come.. we go yum seng, don owiz go karaok!

Yesterday at 10:44am

Chew Yew Chong

@#$X%! you misunderstand wat is "recommends" and "present the event", there is two separated thing we talking about here! Cant mix up one! I am not so "desperated" as you, not to said I am lazy?!
And the "What,u wants me to attend the event for u,and filter girls for u ah..?" Now, u can see wat kind of thinking u have???

Yesterday at 11:15am

Chew Yew Chong

都是Firnice好,intro gal to me...this is call friend ma!James,learn things lah! Fernice, come,come go yum seng.

Yesterday at 11:32am

Fernice Yap

ha haha.. aiyoh.. u guys don argue hou mou? gals jer ma.. out there alot la!!! pretty gal, ugly gal, sexy gal, young gal.. mat gals oso got la. .. just tat u ngam ng ngam only!

Yesterday at 12:10pm

Khoo Chen Shiang

typical "Heavy on Color, Lighter on Friend"..no comment

Yesterday at 12:11pm · Delete

Jeff Khoo

it seem that our beloved junior know the way to recommend gal to a-chang uncle, so rest of templer member better dun campur tangan. So thanks Fernice. :)

Yesterday at 3:15pm

Chew Yew Chong

not to said wan to argue with James...sometime his conversation got 譏笑成分....just want to "炸" him ! ha ha ha...

Yesterday at 3:46pm

Khoo Chen Shiang

aiya, it's never my intention to 譏笑 you, but wanted best of you, have I not introduce GIRL to you, (Remember Evelyn? )

The things is participate Event allows you to meet a lot of girls, there going to have games and quiz for each of u to find some one suitable to you, compare to each of us introduce one girl to you at one time..which u may or may not like it..

So, tell me, which method more effective..... Read More

I am sorry that I have make u feels 譏笑..it's not my intention..

Yesterday at 3:58pm · Delete

Fernice Yap

Jeff: nah Jeff, u don push the responsibility to me ya! i just intro my gang of frens to him, come out hoo haa only. im not really wanted to b the 'mui yan poh'. i scared later i 'gar ng chut'.. he he he!

James: wat u mean the event isit those match maker party? it sounds great wor, i wanna go oso! Can know more fren wor!

Yesterday at 5:48pm

Fernice Yap

wai wai.. any 1 of u wanna go back chung hua this sunday?

Yesterday at 5:50pm

Khoo Chen Shiang

Fernice my Sis, may I suggest you bring Chan Gor Gor to this event, http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=101233973894

Thanks ah..

Yesterday at 5:52pm · Delete

Chew Yew Chong

"@#$X%, don't believe why such person so lazy, needs to spoon feed ah" if someone just talk to you like tat, wat do you feel?? Beside that, I am not your employee huh!CEO...
May be I want to join some EQ classes... James! Want to join ark??
Evelyn is N yrs ago...not my type...
I prefer "intro gals". option 2 come to Events...
Everyone love to said: " For your own good mah!" do you??

Yesterday at 6:22pm

Jeff Khoo

chang, dun be mad lar, Maybe James good intention was contructed in the wrong way, we do hope you will find ur luv one someday.

Fernice: the 'nah' word prove that u really is 浩强 sis! Hahaha ....... we all like the way ur bro saying those words, so we like u as well. Hahaha!

Yesterday at 8:32pm

Chew Yew Chong

Jeff : I know my EQ up to tat high level liao,ur bro James wont make me mad one...just wan to "炸" him back cause by the wrong way he was talking about...
James: Do u know how to talk polite?the way u talk is same as my mom liao..我都不急，你比我媽還急！
Fernice:I promise tat I wont make u 'gar ng chut' de la...ngam ng ngam is other case ma...dont like to ... Read Moreforce u do 'mui yan poh' la, just intro only
All members of Temple 4 uncles and a little pretty lady: I am very appreciated to u guys to help me to find my luv one someday.. thanks!

15 hours ago

Chew Yew Chong

Fui Ping,Veron,Pei Ling,Lilian:I told u b4 is man talk, our conversation is a lot of @#$X% de ,hopefully not scare ur ladies ?! still want gathering ?

15 hours ago

Khoo Chen Shiang

Dear my belove brother Ah Chan, I am so sorry to make u feels bad, u know lah, like typing a message, I can't express my voice tone in the message, if you do can hear it, I use "cheecky" voice to reply the message..

Further more, if u do review all the message from top to bottom, I been address by you "*&^%$#@" twice.. . but again, I am as your ... Read Morebrother, I should not use back the "*&^%$" to you, my mistake..

On the other hand, are we trying to make the world record on putting a lot and a lot of comments for this picture... HaHa..

6 hours ago · Delete

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Wedding Video at the SFX Church

Thanks to Sia, our good friend,who volunteer be our camera man, here's video of our wedding at SFX Church.



Some memorable moments..
At Minute 9:15, me having difficulties on taking out the Ring..
At Minute 10:15, Winnie refuse for me to kiss her lips..

Enjoy!!

Cheers

Our Wedding Presentations

For those who miss out our Wedding, and can't attend our wedding, here is our Wedding presentations..




In part 1 of the video, we tells our story
Winnie and I actually cross each other path many times, but somehow we never meet..
Do excuse the Evaluation Copy Water Mark on the video, I am using eval copy of a shareware to convert PowerPoint to a Video..

Next I invited to stage, and tells our friends how I "chase" after Winnie, and how I get Winnie to agree to marry me.. Here is our pre wedding Photos...



Hope you like it, Enjoy!

Officially husband and wife

Our Wedding Rings, check...

Flowers, check

The lovely couple, Winnie and James, Check

James say: "Saya Setuju (I agree)" almost immediately,
naughty Winnie take a moment to think for few seconds, and finally
say "Saya Setuju"....

Officially Husband and Wife at 10:45am

A very touching SMS from my Wife..

My wife just send me a very touching SMS, I just needs to record the SMS here, so it will kept forever

Previously I feel safe bcos there r alwiz 2 sets of foot steps,
one is mind and d other is Jesus.
Dar, with u cumg in 2 my life, now my life is complete and fill with contentment and happiness.
I am really thankful to God for sending u and bay,
now there will always be more and more foot steps in this happy family of ours and I believed,
just like our prayer,
we will growth in size and in love with Him guiding and leading us..
Darling I will always love u and walk with u till the last step in our life,
Love u darling..

Love is decision, not by feeling!!

I just attended a Pre-Marriage course with my soon to be Wife, Winne, and one things we learn from the course, is Love is always base on decision, not by feeling, this has come to surprise to many of us, for me, how could One in love with someout without feeling in the first place? Right.

But at the end, I learned that if Love purely base on Feeling, that one can easily fall in, and one could easily fall out, as we human being can't control our feeling, but we can decide to continue to love in regardless of what feeling we have..

I posted my view on this on facebook, this is feedback on my friends on this same topic, some is very interesting.

Khoo Chen Shiang is Learn that Love is always base on decision, and not by feeling. In any situation, we always has to decide base on our desire or base on love

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Richa Dwivedi at 7:51pm May 11

I don't get it. Does it mean you're in love because you've "decided" to be in love rather than you "feel" in love?? Doesn't make sense! I'm confused...

Khoo Chen Shiang at 10:51pm May 11

If love purely base on feeling, that it's easy to "fall in" and so does it will easy "fall out". For example, if my partner late of our date, I can be angry and decide to raise my voice to ask why she's late, or I can decide to love, and ask with concern voice, is she ok, and etc.

I could decide to always spend my weekend with friend for few round of Golf, or I could decide to take 1-2 weekend off with my wife just do nothing or cook dishes together..

A lot of marriage couple are "seen" from outside eye they are marry, but in fact they are marriage individual, again a decision they made..

Annie Tan at 10:59pm May 11

fren, don't look at other ppl, just be happy with what you are doing and live with it. God is there for you, He never take an off day! :-)

Wong Yeow Soon at 11:03pm May 11

Hey man, its oo complicated. Love is feeling, understanding, caring, dedicating. Over the years, you will find out, whether you love or beloved,it's a burden. Moreover, whatever decision you make for your future, married or single, you'll be regretted for the rest of your life.

Luckchai Lerchaichanakul at 12:04am May 12

I'm sure James has lots (if not too many) of feeling on this luv based on the story developed steps by steps from James' blogs over the whole period. But after all the loving feeling, one has to decide whether to commit to this love or else... It's the life long commitment that need more than just feeling which can change over time...

Jamie Lim at 12:05am May 12

Emmm... Then am gotta repeat my principle @ L.O.V.E again... 1st r'ship = she luv u more than u lov her but cudn't work out... 2nd r'ship = u luv her more than she luv u but still cudn't work out... 3rd r'ship usually it's the time to get marry = both luvES are 50% 50% but it's juz the timing is rite >>> P/S: Emmm... That's the love on decision lol i guess :P

Wong Yeow Soon at 9:21am May 12

Jamie, i heard this before, but i think this is some kind of nonsence to me. When it's come to love or true love, there is no percentage to each other, somehow or rather, you die for it.

Khoo Chen Shiang at 9:28am May 12

Answer to Jamie, nope, I Love my wife Winnie very much, and Love can't be quantifiable, thus it's pointless to compare u current love with previous lovers. Live the moment, and treasure you love now.

Luckchai get my message 100% correctly!

After marriage, when everyone back to realities, we people easily takes things for granted, and sooner or later, we start blaming our partner that he/she is not as romantic as before, and surprisingly we will hear the same from our partner, haha but all this can change if we wants to change, again decision,decision, and decisions....

We could decide to give a a simple morning kiss to our love one, before we go to work, a Call to ask how his/her day in the office, a surprise visit to his/her office for lunch, or just simple lying down at Sofa, under a blanket, and watch a good movie together..and soon we will get back the romantic feeling we used to have..

Joe Heath at 9:47am May 12

Sounds like you could have a career writing that gobbledygook you find in the horoscope section of the newspaper... ;o)

James Khoo, Agony Aunt & Feng Shui Toilet Master

*joke* :op

Khoo Chen Shiang at 9:58am May 12

haha, thanks for teaching me new English word today, "Gobbledygook"..

Joe Heath at 10:19am May 12

It's a great word. I challenge you to use it in conversation at least 10 times today

Annie Tan at 2:37pm May 12

Fully agreeable with u James!